First of all, thank you to everyone who came out to the Pumpkin Parade at East Lynn Park on November 1st and especially to the volunteers who tossed pumpkins in less-than-ideal weather to help us restore the park at the end of the night.
The Pumpkin Parade was the first of four November DECA events. Here is the low-down on what else is coming up!
DECA Pride cinq-à-sept | November 9 |5-7pm
Bringing together East End LGBTQ+ folks and allies, DECA Pride is hosting a casual get together at Local 1794 from 5-7pm. Light snacks provided. Meet at the back!
Click here to join the DECA Pride email list and here to join the Facebook group.
DECA Annual General Meeting & Party | November 20 | 7-9pm
It’s our last official #DECAde event – the Annual General Meeting & Party! Come to Hirut Café and Restaurant to eat delicious Ethiopian food, listen to some live music, meet your neighbours, renew your membership or join DECA and celebrate another great year of community-building. Cash bar. Board elections and formal remarks will be short, starting at around 8. Facebook event is here.
Stay tuned for our recommended nominations for next year’s Board. Spoiler alert: change is afoot!
DECA’s Festival of Lights | November 25 | 5-6pm
For the past five years, DECA has organized a tree lighting event at East Lynn Park to celebrate the festive season and this year promises to be the best one yet!
Rumour has it that Santa himself has cleared his schedule to visit us.
Watch this space for the beautiful poster to come, and in the meantime, save the date!
Where is the best spot for a police station? Did you know Division 54 & 55 are amalgamating and looking for a new site. We first blogged about this last month.
One of the shortlisted sites is the TTC Barns at Coxwell and Danforth – a massive five acre site that, if put to the right use, has the potential to transform our neighbourhood. Can we unlock the potential of this site with a police station?
The selection process for the new station is happening very fast with a decision expected to be made next month.
Last week, DECA and other community groups, including the Danforth Mosaic BIA, formally requested a delay in the process, citing the need for more public information.
To be clear, this isn’t about NIMBYism. We aren’t saying no station here. We’re asking what is possible for that site, with or without a station. More than anything right now, we want more information and time.
What we know
Toronto Police Services (TPS) and the City of Toronto began the site selection community consultations in October, presenting the top three sites: the Danforth Coxwell TTC Barns, the East York Civic Centre and the current 55 Division at Dundas and Coxwell.
DECA’s Visioning Committee, DECA Board members and many neighbours attended the packed meetings. Although TPS had been planning to build a new police station since 2014, the public wasn’t invited into the site selection process until October 2017. TPS plans to present the selected site to the City’s Executive Committee on November 29 and then go to City Council on December 6th (to seek further study of the selected site).
[You can read more about the site selection process in this Beach Metro article by Stephen Wickens (who has been a driving force behind DECA’s Visioning Committee for years) – the article also sheds light on another possible site!
What we’ve asked
Because of the impact a new police station could have on our community, DECA and others have requested a further public meeting to get answers to these questions:
Questions in regards to Coxwell TTC Barns site:
We are concerned about the security design criteria and setbacks required by TPS, even if some recent stations include some aesthetically pleasing design. Specifically how might the police station fit onto the site? Is TPS willing to compromise on security criteria in order to truly integrate with and contribute to a vibrant mixed-use hub? Can the TPS facility fit within close proximity as part of an urban-style cluster of mid-rise, mixed use buildings?
With neighbourhood concerns about traffic and noise, will serious traffic studies be done prior to final site alternatives be conducted for the entire TTC property? Would such a fit-test endeavour to include all potential uses: TPS, the TTC’s existing and potential uses (TTC needs space for various front and back-office functions and is considering a museum)? What other city office-space needs might be served? Would new building offer opportunities for an expanded or relocated library, public open space, public indoor space, Tobias House upgrades, heritage structure programming.
Will the concept of Complete Streets with retail and even residential components be considered in the site planning process?
If a police division is located on the Coxwell TTC site, how might it prevent/inhibit other community/cultural uses? (Such as those listed as things the community needs below). We request clarification on what percentage of the Coxwell TTC site the TPS would occupy, if this site is chosen. How much space would be available for other uses?
How is the heritage status to be preserved if this site if chosen?
How will the parking be accommodated? Will the community have any assurance that the parking will be underground? The current walled-off surface parking lot is seriously street-deadening.
There has been a lack of community engagement and involvement in the site selection, followed by a rushed process taking place under a sudden deadline. To what extent will the community be involved in the design of the station and the selection of the community and cultural uses that could be attracted to occupy other parts of the site?
The process to date has included little or no information on the impact that a police station on this site might have on rest of land and its immediate surroundings. This includes concerns over the Heritage Status as well as the loss of potential uses for this site (cultural, community, retail etc.) which may not be deemed a good fit to cohabit with a police station. Does the TPS, city real estate and city planning have partners in mind for the site and, if yes, who are they?
Community needs in regards to Coxwell TTC Barns site:
The two police divisions extend from the Don River to Victoria Park yet only two public consultations were held at EYCC and further south, nearer the Dundas police station, perhaps because there are no large meeting spaces centrally located on the subway, near Danforth. Such a space would be essential to a mixed-use hub at the Danforth, as would outdoor public space + community recreation facilities and cultural uses. The area also needs functions that bring people to the area and its shops and restaurants from other parts of the city each day. It could be office space for all three levels of government or an educational institution (a police college?). Daycare, healthcare and a library that are all part of mixed-use buildings present real opportunity. Some residential, including apartments geared to seniors, might be a great part of the mix.
The community and BIA have worked hard over the past five years to improve our commercial strip along Danforth East and create a vibrant street. This section of Danforth is lacking a pedestrian-friendly and welcoming retail strip, while the street frontages of the TTC site create blocks that are too long and impenetrable. Plans to redevelop the Coxwell TTC Barns should focus on economic development and the creation of pedestrian-friendly blocks. [Note: See work of Ryerson Architecture students “Danforth East Streetcar Yards” and Top Ten Ideas for the Danforth, by Paul Bedford’s Students presented at Imagine the Danforth, hosted by DECA in 2015.]
We believe it’s important to work with the mid-rise guidelines created by city planning and approved by city council to develop this nearly five-acre site. They are essential elements of the ongoing Danforth Avenue Planning Study and cannot be ignored for any site, let alone such a key and potentially catalytic site. This has to be a primary focus, no matter what the TPS security concerns.
What can you do?
We have more influence the more members we have. If you haven’t joined DECA as a member, join now for $10/household annually: https://deca.to/membership/
The Toronto Police Service material provided these contacts for this process:
Can you believe it, Halloween is almost here! The decorations are everywhere as the whole neighborhood gets into the spooky Halloween spirit. Even the jack-o-lanterns are now starting to make an appearance and hoping to outlast the squirrels’ attacks until after the big day. One of our favorite parts of Halloween is not the day of, but November 1 when jack-o-lanterns from around the ‘hood make their way to East Lynn park, or another park nearby, and we all light them up one last time and see the wonderful creations blinking together in the night.
Even better, when you are ready to go you can leave your pumpkins at the park and amazing volunteers will toss those babies in bins that the city provides, and the city will pick up in one swoop the next day. So bring your pumpkins and your candles and come join in the fun on November 1 starting at 6:30 pm with DECA at East Lynn Park!
First of all, thanks to those of you who came on short notice to sing Bobcaygeon with us on Thursday, in memory of Gord Downie. We were honoured to bring people together to pay tribute to such an incredible person, artist and East End resident – and we raised over $500 for the Downie Wenjack Fund, which is amazing.
We want that feeling of the community coming together to continue, so here are some events coming up to tell you about.
CareVillage Halloween event – Just Say Boo!
Come with your littles to enjoy Halloween fun at the Masonic Temple located at 13 Chisholm (near Main & Danforth) on Saturday morning from 10am-noon. Read the official event page for all the details!
2nd Annual Danforth East Short Film Festival
Put together by DECA’s own Nicole Bergot-Browning, this film fest is not to be missed! Now in its second year, you will not want to miss it. Only $15 and happening right in the neighbourhood at Time Capsule (2183 Danforth, just east of Woodbine).
This is slightly outside our DECA catchment but you don’t want to miss it. The Walking With Our Sisters – Toronto commemorative art installation for the Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women of Canada and the USA will only be open to the public for two more days: Saturday October 21st and Sunday October 22nd from 12-6pm. Located at 16 Phin Avenue (Danforth/Greenwood) this is important viewing and should not be missed.(Note that it will close October 22 and not October 29)More info here.
Pumpkins at Earl Beatty
This annual event is a school fundraiser and a great way to procure your pumpkin for a good cause! Head over from 7:30am onward on Thursday, October 26! (Earl Haig Ave, just south of Coxwell and Danforth.
Next weekend…
Tired parents need time to prepare so wanted to share this event taking place next Saturday (October 28) hosted by Merrily, Merrily (1854 Danforth). Check the poster for contact details on where to email to register for a free 15-minute sleep consultation.
Being an entrepreneur might not be for everyone, but for Paola, it’s in her blood. As a Girotti from St. Catharines, Ontario, she comes from a long line of entrepreneurs.
Maybe that’s why I knew I could do it on my own.
When Paola almost walked away from everything that she had created, it was a chance encounter with a Dragon’s Den star that changed her life.
Paola’s story is one of brains and vision, the guts to continue through devastating times, and the feet to keep moving. And for those who know Paola, they know of her heart.
Brain
When your skin is the largest organ of your body, Paola feels that you should feed it with the best food possible; maybe that’s why her lotions and scrubs smell so good that you want to eat them. Sweet Orange. Lavender Lime. Vanilla Bean. She has hydrating masks, savoury lip balms, sugaring kits, and decadent bath melts that will leave your tub filled with dried flower petals. She invests the time and research into bringing quality products to the floor. It has built Paola’s reputation and has attracted celebrity clientele to her salons.
Whether it’s a skin line from Italy or a product that’s Canadian, she chooses only the best. At Sugarmoon, all of the skin care lines are eco-certified (which is a difficult certification to get) and she also works with a chemist out of Mississauga to create her own products. Just within the last few weeks, Sugarmoon has expanded to include Babymoon (products for baby) and Sweetmoon (skin products for teens).
Eyes
Growing up in Thorold, Ontario, Paola had sugaring done as a child. She had light skin and dark facial hair on her chin and upper lip. Paola was thankful that her mom got on it quickly and took her to see someone which helped with her confidence.
Later in her life, when Paola was working in Toronto in the film industry, she couldn’t believe that she had to drive all the way back to St. Catharines just to be sugared. There was nothing in the city and Paola saw an opportunity.
Sugarmoon Salon became a brand built around the process of sugaring and was one of the first salons in the city when it started 15 years ago. Sugaring is a hair removal approach that’s more gentle on your skin. The sugar is made from natural products (sugar, lemon, and water) and when cooked to a particular consistency, almost mimics the feel of wax. You could actually eat it if you wanted to. It is cool to the touch and does not adhere to live cells, so unlike waxing, your skin is not burned or removed in the process.
We are the organic strawberry. The Whole Foods of hair removal.
Feet
Paola studied science in college and university but didn’t love it. With a cousin who was a film director, she decided to get into the industry as a production assistant. Nine years later, she was a production coordinator and also produced her own short film. She loved story and being able to see it come to life on set, but she didn’t love the long hours. Paola and a friend (also in film) decided to reinvent themselves in their late 20s.
After going to esthetics school, they opened their first sugaring business in an apartment on the second floor of what used to be Michael’s Meats (just down from where today’s Local 1794 is). It was the only place where they could afford rent on the Danforth. Paola’s mom gave them a $10,000 loan to buy the materials and equipment they needed to get started. It didn’t take long before her loan was paid back.
Stomach
We can look at a business and think about how beautiful it is or how successful, but we often don’t know what it cost in order to get there.
Paola and her partner went from a super lucrative wage in film to making very little. Her son, Elias, was born two months premature and they had just expanded their business. Paola had to go back to work when Elias was 8 weeks old. What did I do? Why didn’t I stay in film? I just want to be home with my baby. She remembers it as a dark time.
After two years, her partner left the business and Paola decided to go out on her own. Their storefront, at that time, was in the TD plaza at Woodington and Danforth; she was doing well until the building flooded. Paola then moved her business to its current location at 1509 Danforth Avenue (right across the street from BOMB Fitness). By this time, Paola had her second baby, Sofia. She was building her business in a new location, she had a newborn, and Elias had Aspbergers. Her plate was full.
Paola hired her best friend, who also became a nanny for Sofia. Sofia would come into work with Paola; a peek at her schedule would have shown: appointment. appointment. appointment. breastfeed. appointment. appointment. breastfeed… She decided to scale down the business and refocus.
Being a mom was number one for me. I’m not sure if I did that role well. I felt guilty all the time. Now I’m the mom I wish I could have been back then. I wish I could have taken time. You can’t get those years back.
Paola grew her staff to 12. She expanded to a second location to College. She was taking care of everyone in her business and doing everything she could to protect it and keep it going. Meanwhile at home, things were not what they seemed.
Paola’s life blew up when her marriage ended. I don’t think we nurtured our marriage. We were so busy. She chose to stay in St. Catharines with her kids to be near friends and family.
Then she met Arlene Dickinson from Dragon’s Den.
She had written Arlene a note after reading some of her books during the time of her divorce. She was surprised to receive an invitation to meet her. In Arlene’s board room, Paola and Cailey (her general manager), gave a presentation. It was a crazy time in Paola’s life. She was doing her best and didn’t know if she should continue with Sugarmoon or walk away from it. After asking Paola to share her story, Arlene’s response was, “Don’t worry, honey. I’ve been married a few times. You’ll be just fine.” The visit didn’t result in a deal, but it was Arlene’s words of encouragement and reassurance that Paola needed to hear at that exact moment in time.
It was a life changing moment for me.
Paola not only continued with Sugarmoon salon but has since built it into a brand with three locations, a product line, and has a distribution company. The gift of Arlene’s time and the understanding of someone who had also been there, made a difference.
Heart
Paola has chosen to pay it forward. She has developed an employee program where she pays staff to work offsite and volunteer at The Red Door Family Shelter. Women who have been battered or are seeking a safe place to stay, are given complimentary massages and sugaring. It’s a way to care for them in some small way.
Paola does what she can to protect family time for her employees. Sugarmoon closes at 5 p.m. on Fridays and Saturdays. They are closed on Sundays. For Paola, families need a day to be together and employees need time to decompress. Although some may question the hours she keeps, she has 22 employees and 11 of them are mothers. From her own experience, she knows how important it is for them to have time with loved ones.
Paola and her children still live in St. Catharines. She’s been on her own now for five years and she’s raising her kids the way that she’s always wanted to. She drives them to school and picks them up afterwards. She’s in the city to work three times a week and has hired staff to manage her three locations (Danforth, Bloor, and College). Elias is in grade 8 and is getting ready for high school; Sofia is in grade 3. According to Paola, she has learned to manage work and her family life more efficiently.
Being an entrepreneur can mean financially tough times and difficult decisions. It also comes with the pride of seeing dreams come to life, which is what keeps Paola going.
You can visit one of Paola’s three Sugarmoon locations in Toronto, one of which is right in our own neighbourhood at 1509 Danforth Avenue. She is proud to share the same philosophy that she started with 15 years ago – bringing eco-focused, organic hair removal to the industry.
Visit her website to learn more about her specialty services and product lines.
Additional posts from The Humans of Danforth East series:
I left your house this morning
About a quarter after nine
Could have been the Willie Nelson
Could have been the wine
When I left your house this morning
It was a little after nine
It was in Bobcaygeon, I saw the constellations
Reveal themselves one star at a time
Drove back to town this morning
With working on my mind
I thought of maybe quitting
I thought of leaving it behind
I went back to bed this morning
And as I’m pulling down the blind
Yeah, the sky was dull, and hypothetical
And falling one cloud at a time
That night in Toronto
With its checkerboard floors
Riding on horseback
And keeping order restored
Till the men they couldn’t hang
Stepped to the mic and sang
And their voices rang
With that Aryan twang
I got to your house this morning
Just a little after nine
In the middle of that riot
Couldn’t get you off my mind
So I’m at your house this morning
Just a little after nine
‘Cause it was in Bobcaygeon, where I saw the constellations
Reveal themselves one star at a time